Just want to tell everyone, the free talk I’m giving in Vancouver for the Vancouver Social Board is almost full, so if you’re interested, make sure to sign up soon! The signup information is down below. VSB/Love Systems Talk Topic:Phone Game: What to Do After You Get the Number and More! Speaker:Tenmagnet. Presented by: The Vancouver Social Board who will be there to answer questions about activities around town. Date: Thursday, December 4th Time: From 7:30pm to 9:30pm Address is: YWCA Hotel, 733 Beatty Street (there are TWO YWCA’s in Vancouver, this is the Beatty Street one) Vancouver, BC Cost: None Register (mandatory so we know how many seats we need): RSVP yourself and your guests to Ronald Lee at info@vancouversocialboard.com or coach@manmeetswoman.com. All Are Welcome!
Well, I’m off to Vancouver next week for another bootcamp, it’ll be nice to be back to the city and see some old friends.
Anyway, while I’m down there, I’m going to be giving a free talk to the guys from the Vancouver Social Board. The topic is going to be about how to move from getting the phone number, to getting a date, so basically phone game and a few related topics. I’ve given this presentation several times, in Dublin, Glasgow and Calgary to name a few, and it’s always gotten great turnouts and reviews.
So, here are the details.
Time: 7:30 PM, Thursday December 3rd. Location :YWCA Hotel 733 Beatty Street (there are TWO YWCA’s in Vancouver, this is the Beatty Street one)
Vancouver, BC V6B 2M4
(FYI, the talk is at the YWCA Hotel, however the bootcamp will NOT be held there.. )
Sometime in the next day or so, a Bootcamp is going to go up for Johannesburg, South Africa.
After the awesome success of our Glasgow and Dublin Bootcamps, Cajun and I are interested in getting our travel on, and visiting some new and far-flung places. We figure South Africa is about as far as you can get.
This is going to be our first bootcamp in Africa, and this is probably going to be a one-time-only event. There are only six seats available, and they’re probably going to fill up fast, so make sure to sign up now.
Savoy has a little poll going on down at The Attraction Forums, asking people who their favorite instructor is.
Right now, I’m losing to Cajun and Fader, and am nearly tied with Braddock. Personally, I think it’s embarrassing that they’re even considered in the same league as me
Anyway, one of my defining characteristics, and something that has helped me immensely with my game, is the fact that I have no shame. So I’m not above trying to stack the deck by begging my blog readers to log onto The Attraction Forums and vote for me.
First of all, for those of you who don’t believe in magical stuff, please give me a chance before you reject this notion. I’m not going to blow sunshine up your ass, or give you some kind of wu-wu new-age energy field you can manipulate to help you solve your life’s problems. But I will explain to you, in an entirely scientific and rational way, why “magical thinking” make sense sometimes, specifically in social situations. [Read more →]
You’re probably thinking to yourself, “What the hell is a spandrel?”, and “what the heck does this have to do with picking up women?”. And the answers are “a concept in evolutionary biology which is inspired by architecture” and “not too much”.
Last summer, Cajun and I went out a few times with a video camera to try and make some pickup videos with the idea of eventually making a product or something out of it.
Anyway, I got busy with school, and the product idea kind of got put on the shelf. We’ve been sitting on the video for a while now, so I decided to just take a few clips and release them free to the interenet. These videos are pretty basic; the target audience is more a newbie who wants to see what good kino + bodylanguage looks like rather than advanced pickup guy. But considering all the crappickupvideos out there I thought I could do people a service by putting something out there that doesn’t suck… in any case, we have some better footage that I’m still holding on to in the hopes of making a pickup product out of them.
Anyway guys, I’m interested in hearing what you guys think of this, and if you have suggestions for something that you’d like to see in a future video, Cajun and I will be going out and trying to get more footage this winter.
I want to apologize a bit, because I’ve been neglecting Mantalk.ca (Canada’s Pickup and Dating Messageboard) for the past few weeks, while I’ve been in Ireland and the U.K.
Anyway, I want to make sure everyone knows that Mantalk is still going on, and since I haven’t done the draw yet, I’m going to keep the contest open for another two weeks, until October 27th.
Also, I’ve changed things around a bit, so now you can browse the forums without logging in, if you want to have a look before you register. Also, we were getting a bit of spam, so I got a better captcha registration process that should fix that.
Someone forwarded me this post from a public forum, and I thought I would start a discussion here… I think this brings up some pretty profound philosophical questions. Also, it’s hilarious.
Siamese Chicks!!! HELP!!!!!
Ok, so I meet two HB (Hot Babes) 8.5’s…they’re siamese. We met at a campus club, and they’re connected at the waist. Here’s the thing, I DHV’d (demonstrated higher value… aka, acted cool) Toward the Obsticle (the left side)whilst negging the target (right side) But the obsticle now likes me!!! Fuck!!!
SO I have a few questions: First of all, If I do hook up with them what does that count as, score-wise? 1 f-close or 2?
First of all, congratulations on being open enough to hit on Siamese twins, while also being picky enough to fine one of them unattractive. I mean, everybody has standards, right?
As for how this counts, score wise, I think it’s a bit of a philosophical question - you might even be having your first threesome! Personally, I would go by the number of vaginas involved. If she has two, you can put two notches on your bedpost (or maybe one big two-headed notch, like a Y), if there’s only one vagina, I’m afraid you can only add one notch. Those are the rules, I’m afraid.
If you’re curious (I am), you should ask her politely “how many vaginas (vaginii?) do you have?”. Try not to look like a creep as you’re doing this.
Certainly, it’ll be a good story to impress your friends!
Glasgow has been a great experience. And I thought I’d pass on some things I’d noticed about Scotland.
1 - Bars and Clubs don’t seem to play that house music bullshit that has infected the rest of the world. I was pleased to see that Glasgow is a city where people actually DANCE to rock music.
2 - The girls in Glasgow were hotter than I expected… but my expectations were low. It probably helps that I like the rocker look, which 2/3rds of the women in Glasgow under the age of thirty are sporting.
3 - Scottish chavs are called neds (Non-educated Delinquents), and are much more rediculous than their American cousins, “white trash”. We sat behind a family of neds on the flight from Dublin, and they were hilarious and obnoxious. The best part was the 8 year old daughter of the family, who had a rediculous fake tan, complete with orange hands, and was talking about some contestant on X-factor (think American Idol) and how she would love to “do” him. Priceless….
4 - Flights in Europe are rediculously cheap… troublingly so. I don’t understand how you can keep an airplane from falling out of the sky when you’re charging 1 euro for a ticket. Also, flights are cheap enough that Neds can afford to travel. I prefer the days when air travel was a bastion of the privileged classes.
5 - Scottish women have a really odd, dry, sense of humor. They’ll make fun of you even if they like you, and you need to hit back. I got confused a few times, not knowing what was going on as scottish girls teased me. But if you give it back better than they can (and I can be as mean and sarcastic as anyone), you win.